So she is a Christian woman looking for a nice man with a Christian who could spend the rest of your life. Ok, let's start with the reading of a fairy tale.
If a woman says Lyman Frank Baum's classic tale The Wizard of Oz, the analysis of characters, it's much more interesting to read. There are four basic types of men in history. The question is what kind of man would like to spend your life?
The Scarecrow is very difficult to concentrate onmost. With a head full of straw, has no idea how to be in a relationship, especially with women. It never occurs to me that women are wired differently than men and that everyone has different needs. It 'been linked to problem solving, thinking, analyzing. What possible good could come from emotions, or to listen without interruption, when upset? And if the problem is resolved, because he needs to talk about? What is the point of crying, anyway?And hugs to understand or stroke - oh, please! He is the man who says: "I do my part: I work my ass off for her and the children to do what would otherwise have to be me."
The Tin Man shows off his masculinity in a sexual manner. You will not see him that is vulnerable to anyone, especially a woman! If he is ever crying you can be sure that no one can testify to it. It would be unmanly. His search for his heart is with sexual advances, lavish gifts, extravagant travel andflashy clothes.
The lion takes courage to take a risk, but usually the wife to start the relationship. If he wins, will be their courage, as long as they are dependent on a few. Oh, parades played brilliantly, his muscles, but it is the woman who rules this man! If they do not like his family, will slowly fade from her family of origin, so that they are satisfied. He did not have done it without them!
The wizard is like a chameleon, to its natural colorEnvironment as camouflage. Need a hero? The assistant can be your hero in an instant! You need someone with finesse? The wizard is your man! Need a magician, you feel like a princess to do? He is your prince! Rarely has this man tell you who he really is. No, this man is behind all kinds of facades - it serves its immediate purpose whatsoever. This man can be everything to everyone. Unless you want to know a man who is and can be honest with yourself (and you).
Do not think sothere are no decent men out, I hasten to add one of these types. Often it takes just a man, a new creation in Christ. We teach the old man - the man he was before he committed himself to the Lordship of Jesus Christ - can be reborn from the inside out. While in his mature life with Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit will teach you how to be a man of God This is what a Christian woman wants!
How to get a man on a considerable length of knowingTime and see how it reacts in a variety of situations will tell you that your husband really is. It is not enough that you are attracted to him, or pretends to be a Christian! Premarital counseling with your pastor will show potential problems before making the leap. Avoid contact with in a hurry to the man hooked! And above all, so that you are in an intimate relationship with your Savior all the time. Finally, you want to set a man, God first in your report. Thoseare the men who treat you with kindness, self-sacrificing love and fidelity.
(C) 2008 April Lorier
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